Sunday, November 6, 2011

2 Wives One Husband = One Happy Family ???

Polygamy is the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one intimate relationship at a time with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved. 

Something like this………

  • John is married to Sarah and they have a physical and emotional relationship.
  • John is married to Judy and they have a physical and emotional relationship.
  • John, Judy and Sarah all share a bed, and are a married triplet who are physically and emotionally committed to each other.

Now that just might be the setup nowadays, but years ago this was only done in certain instances under certain conditions mostly to protect members of one's tribe, kinda like "let's keep it in the family" smh !   
Polygamy exists in three specific forms: 
polygyny - where a man has multiple wives
polyandry - where a woman has multiple husbands.
group marriage - where the family consists of multiple husbands and multiple wives.
polygyny is by far the most common.
Since so many different religions practice this, I assumed there were rules and circumstances that applied to this certain “lifestyle”.  I found that men would take on more than one wife when children where left orphaned by events such as war. They can be taken in as a second wife so that their children will be cared for and protected. If the man is not able to treat both wives equally in both material and emotional, he should not marry a second wife.
Another circumstances where these multiple marriages take place is when the first wife is terminally ill or unable to bear children. (Like Oh no honey pie, I can't wait for you to die to get some ass I need me some while u r dieing ... smh.. umm what kinda love is that ?)  The golden rule about these relationships is that everyone involved must agree. To me this sounds like no compassion for your ill wife, but these were their "religious beliefs".

Sadly most of these women who agreed to such conditions were forbidden to marrying outside their tribes, leaving them 2 options, be single or enter in an arranged marriage.  I see these individuals are victims of their own beliefs, forced to believe in something that  does not shows any signs of real love, or commitment to spending a life together for better or for worst. Not to mention getting AIDS or an STD because your husband just wants some buns!  However, arguing these “religious beliefs “would be an endless battle between opinions.

There are women still trapped in this lifestyle with no way out due to economic stability, or fear to disobey their superiors. Nowadays people are engaging is these relationships just to spice of their life and limit commitment or increase the amount of sexual partners they could explore.  Now most men would agree with this lifestyle because generally it’s every man’s dream to have a couple a wives that would all be content with such arrangements. However, the reality is there are women that know nothing else but this lifestyle and dream to get out! Let’s raise awareness …. They are not properties or baby making machines, they must know they have choices and this shouldn’t be one of them. 

Every woman is entitled to her “own” husband as well as every man is entitled to his own wife!  I would never agree to lower my standards to be a second wife and if I was the first wife I wouldn't agree a second wife, we would just have to split…. Would you engage in a poly relationship? Yes..Why?... No..Why Not?

I hope people share their insight on this topic.. we never know if we could end someone's nightmare of being just a number ! smh ! 


Wishing my reading many blessings,peace love and light !!!  

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Law of Attraction

                       Law of Attraction

If you are reading this blog, your are super intelligent and bright. Probably looking for ways to improve you life. Tired of people influencing your everyday routines? Tired of feeding off all these bad energies around you? You feel you have a greater purpose in life!  Throughout my life I have discovered I have a special gift. However, there were many changes I had to make in order to explore and manifest this gift at its highest potential. 

To start I fully realized the cycle of life and how it affects us. I learned that no one is born knowing anything. During childhood we are pron to traumatic experiences like neglect, abuse,rape,weight problems, teasing in school e.t.c. Many people are greatly affected by these events and they become bitter, isolated and depressed. As adults we carry such experiences into our relationships and raising our children. Other people have beautiful childhoods and a bad experience as an adult, will turn their world upside down leading them to feeling lost and confused. 

Thank God there is a simple self taught way of fixing all of this and filling your life with everything you really want !!! To create and self design your future through the power of words and a strong inner desire.  You might be thinking "YEAH RIGHT" but I am so serious !!! Everything you will need to change your life around into a positive, healthy, peaceful living is within you. You think God would give you the give a life with no purpose ??? Everyone that walks this earth has a destiny, However many people do not exercise the self power god has bless us all with. 

For example : A bum on the street begging for change .... He smells bad , He's dirty, He's extremely poor ... why ? he is not attracting anything but pity ! So with that self pity he continues to beg for money day in and day out. Forces himself to think that's the only way to survive, blaming his past, the system, his family, friends e.t.c. He is not using the power of his mind to push himself forward. If in his heart he didn't want to be a bum, he would try and look for all the ways to not be one. This is not the case with all bums on the street but just an example to explain the law of attraction.

I have done my fair research and many exhibit a complicated understanding to how the law of attraction works ... but I cut it down to the chase for you. Simply write down what you dream or wish for in life, think of it , say it to yourself ,believe that you can be whatever you want, don't let negative people get the best of you or your peace of mind. Sometimes for me that could be the hardest thing... but I feel like I must help others to help myself... My goal is for us to better and grow together!! 

Try the law of attraction along with meditation and your life with improve.. I promise, block out all negative thoughts, don't think about your bills all the time, don't think about drama all the time, you will only bring more drama to yourself, envision yourself as the person in your dream.  Of-course other people are going to think you are crazy, but fu*k them ! As they see your change and all the good things coming to your life they will want to know the recipe to all your happiness.

With this blog I start the journey to my new life !!! Thanks for reading .... You can contact me at 

See you on my next blog 
Wishing all my readers success,happiness and many blessings !!
The Empress * 

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