tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-911838803186881081.post339224528947546995..comments2011-11-11T06:25:31.259-08:00Comments on * It's My Life *: 2 Wives One Husband = One Happy Family ???The Empresshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11925682211009305264noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-911838803186881081.post-8185295324297559372011-11-11T06:25:31.259-08:002011-11-11T06:25:31.259-08:00There is no way that I am coming second to anyone ...There is no way that I am coming second to anyone in a relationship. To each its own, who am I to judge?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-911838803186881081.post-78202958205522555532011-11-09T07:47:22.317-08:002011-11-09T07:47:22.317-08:00thank you for your feedback !!!thank you for your feedback !!!The Empresshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11925682211009305264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-911838803186881081.post-39424423465551489512011-11-07T08:52:09.771-08:002011-11-07T08:52:09.771-08:00What about polyandry, when one woman took on multi...What about polyandry, when one woman took on multiple husbands. It seems to be more about the welfare of society and what the leaders of these societies deem necessary to advance the common interests of all the citizenry and its survival instead of the interests of one woman or one man alone. There are many things that individuals may not agree to, but the leaders of a society have to do what is necessary to ensure its prosperity and survival, and to look out for the common good. In the western world, many individuals hate paying taxes, some men also think it's unfair that mothers are deemed the primary custodians by law in the US, and there are many other laws that we may not agree to, but THIS IS NOT ABOUT INDIVIDUALS, it's about the COMMON GOOD and the COMMON INTERESTS. At least, polygamy is not forced down people's throats as some laws are..it has always been a mutual arrangement. These societies that allow polygamy only make it an option for consenting adults who have no problem with it, as a way to alleviate certain societal ills...in the case of polyandry, one woman would take on multiple husbands because of scarcity of food and other resources. Instead of dividing the family resources between two or three brothers, the state simply allows them the option of marrying one woman as a way to share the little resources that the family has. <br /><br />In the case of polygyny, where women outnumber men by a vast margin, the state typically allows one man to have multiple "consenting" wives as a way to reduce the number of single mothers and poverty. The key concept here is the common good, and not the idiosyncradic whims of one individual.Rolandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08844897437328316463noreply@blogger.com